tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-49806363129421732012024-02-07T03:42:02.487-06:00The Gorgeous DorkLover of all things fun, fab and interesting....I share my thoughts, experiences and whatever I feel like at the moment in time lol. Setting out to help everyone live a happy life!~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-78284844294782273852012-10-18T10:19:00.001-05:002012-10-18T10:19:44.691-05:00Alicia Keys - Brand New Me<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/-WUAd0ODzlk?fs=1" width="480"></iframe>''<br />
This lyrics are so me, right now.... I am excited!<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">It's been a while, I'm not who I was before </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">You look surprised, your words don't burn me anymore </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Been meaning to tell you, but I guess it's clear to see </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Can't be bad, I found a brand new kind of free </span><br />
<br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Careful with your ego, he's the one that we should blame</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"> </span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Had to grab my heart back </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">God know something had to change </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I thought that you'd be happy </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I found the one thing I need, why you mad </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">It's just the brand new kind of me </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Never bad, I found a brand new kind of free </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Oh, it took a long long road to get here </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">It took a brave, brave girl to try </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">It took one too many excuses, one too many lies </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't be surprised, don't be surprised </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">If I walk a little taller </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">If I speak up when you're wrong </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">If I walk a little taller </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I'd be known to you too long </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">If you noticed that I'm different </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't take it personally </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Oh, it took a long long road to get here </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">It took a brave brave girl to try </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I've taken one too many excuses, one too many lies </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't be surprised, oh see you look surprised </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Hey, if you were a friend, you want to get know me again </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">If you were worth a while </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">You'd be happy to see me smile </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I'm not expecting sorry </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I'm too busy finding myself </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I got this </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I found me, I found me, yeah </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I don't need your opinion </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I'm not waiting for your ok </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">I'll never be perfect, but at least now i'm brave </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Now, my heart is open </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">And I can finally breathe </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of free </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">That ain't bad, I found a brand new kind of me </span><br style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Corbel, helvetica, verdana, arial; 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Totally neglected those of you who do read and I apologize. I am taking a little break but I promise to be back. God is opening so many doors in my life, I am way too focused on that right now. Opportunities arise daily and why not answer the door when they knock. God is moving and I don't want to miss a beat. I am feeling better than ever. He never ceases to amaze me. One out, one in...Thank you Lord. *praise break*<br />
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Continue to listen to your heart and follow your dreams. When doors close, let them. When people leave, let them. I promise you something bigger and better is on the way. Wishing you all an abundance of blessings!<br />
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I'm over here cheering on all of you, even the naysayers and haters.<br />
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God bless! Living life in the overflow....<br />
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~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-91049182408897533852012-09-10T21:05:00.000-05:002012-09-10T21:05:35.754-05:00Things...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So yeh.. its been a while. So many things are happening however I'm still in the race and waiting on whats to come. In the meantime I've come up with a few things to blog about lol.<br />
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So, its football season and both my husband and I love football. I am a die hard Bears fan, he...a 49ers fan. I used to love them back in Jerry Rice days but things have changed, I do however love the game so I enjoy watching the 49ers, Steelers, Eagles, and many others. I am a huge fan of Peyton Manning too so I'll be tuning into the Bronco's this season as well. I took a few pics of me and the hubby being silly on Sunday watching the games. I'll be documenting this season of LOVE & FOOTBALL lol. #loveandfootball<br />
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I also have been purging and getting rid of so many things. I've been tossing papers, clothes, jewelry, you name it OUT! Either giving to Goodwill, relatives or simply throwing in the trash. In the process I knew I had a lot of tops but I did not know I had as many as I do. So, I'll also be forcing myself to wear every top and I'll be posting about it lol. Some new, some old but I thought it would be fun to actually force myself to wear them all. The #toomanyshirtsproject! <br />
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a lil sweater shirt I found at H&M<br />
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I post most of the pics on instagram but I will try my hardest to post here as well.<br />
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Guess, what I've also started Insanity and mama is sticking with it. I have a special birthday coming up 12-12-12 and Hubby and friends will be cruising with me. I would tell you where but yeh you know how that goes...people watching me LOL. My goal is to be in something teeny the entire time lmao..just kidding but I do plan on wearing shorts which is something I DON'T DO! I will keep you (the few of you that read) what's going on and the plans and all that great stuff!<br />
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I miss blogging but so much other stuff had been occupying my time.<br />
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I also did an entry challenge for people to complete for my new coaching business. I have a few people taking the challenge and it warms my heart that people are actually seeing things manifesting in their lives from something I helped with. How cool! GOD gets all the glory! I figure this was a good way to introduce the business, get some feedback and I even offered it free. This coaching thing...its not about the money but helping people get out of their own way and live this life we get OUT LOUD! Feel me? I hope so.<br />
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During all this time, you know the devil has been attacking but I am standing firm and believing that God is about to unleash some stuff I wont even be able to explain. You better watch what I tell you. I just want to be a blessing to others and help who I can along the way. Lets master it together. <br />
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I've discovered while working this job I have that I am most happy when I am helping others reach goals and planning events! Hey, that's my thing and I'm gonna work it. So thankful for the hubby being so supportive of it. I will have my certification shortly and I already have it in event planning. SO just watch me work.. well actually, watch God work! I can't do anything without Him. <br />
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I love you all... and I'm here for ya. Follow me on instagram thegorgeousdork<br />
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~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-36391415992843725942012-08-03T10:41:00.001-05:002012-08-03T10:41:18.651-05:00Challenges...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I've been making a lot of changes lately and even starting a new adventure in my life. I've been studying a lot and created a couple of challenges for future clients. I'm praying that this new path is an awesome one for my clients but for me as well. I have a couple people taking one of my challenges as we speak and I think, better yet I know it will be life changing for them.<br />
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I've done teen mentoring/coaching for 8+ years and I think now its time to help others. I'm planning to put my youth development business on hold for a year and focus on the ones who did participate individually. I even plan to do a tween/teen conference this year so that maybe I can reach more than the few I've had over the years. However, I am okay knowing that I have at least changed or impacted the life of one.<br />
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I've been stepping out on faith more and more as of late, the stronger it gets the more I step out on it. What's holding you back from stepping out into your dreams? Fear? Always remember that FEAR is not of God and can easily be remembered as False Evidence Appearing Real. Don't let fear keep you from reaching goals, making dreams a reality. This life we get on earth is short and we should live every day as the gift it is. Make a difference. Give of yourself and your talents. God gave you that gift for a reason.<br />
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Continue to keep me lifted in prayer as I step out and try to change as many lives as I can.<br />
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We may not agree always, we may not support the same things or believe the same things but one thing I can say is that I love you regardless.<br />
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Love,<br />
~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-37880122190070251262012-07-31T13:38:00.001-05:002012-07-31T13:38:07.988-05:00Major...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So, I realized I haven't posted in a while and told you last that I'd show pics of the new baby.<br />
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Well, he's here and has been here for going on three weeks and let me tell you he is bad. How can something that is 3.3 lbs be such a busy body?? lol<br />
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Introducing the new addition, Major!<br />
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This was his first night at home with me, my hubby was out of town and left me to be a single mom to this little rascal. First couple of days I was just tired because he whined all night and couldn't get his potty issues together lol.<br />
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Daddy was back home this week so Major completely dissed his momma for him. They play together often until he makes his daddy mad lol.<br />
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I think this is where we love him most...him sleeping. He's so cute when he's sleeping and so good lol. He always has to hide under the couch to sleep when he's not behind his gate. He acts as though he has such a hard life.<br />
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when he's riding in the jeep with us he feels as though he's got to see what's going on. Mind you, he's only 3.3 lbs so its kinda hard to look out of windows without a bit of assistance. He definitely has the Napolean complex.<br />
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Well, here's our baby and I am sure there will be many more posts about him in the future. I just wanted to make sure I introduced him to you guys. When I get ready to kick him out hopefully you guys will be there to pick him up lol.<br />
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~thegorgeoudork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-24296151618739801502012-07-03T10:17:00.002-05:002012-07-03T10:17:44.992-05:00something new...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I have not had a dog since I was about 4 years old. Shortly after my dog was put down I was introduced to the movie Cujo, so right away you should know I was messed up- seeing this at 4/5 years old lol. Anywho, for the next two years I remember having nightmares about Cujo and was terrified of dogs. I've been scared of dogs up until about 3 years ago and even still takes me a minute to be calm around them.<br />
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With that said, I have been interested in getting a puppy for the last 3 years or more. I'm finally getting one! It seems like it took forever to find the right one but I did and he will be here next Monday. Mel and I have decided to name him Major! Originally, I wanted to name him Rupert (my family guy fans will get it) but Mel was not having it. We are the proud pet parents of a peekapoo!<br />
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I have been getting all the little things our little man will need without going overboard too. I've found all kinds of goodies that were reasonable prices online and at Home Goods. I've got my little guy a bed, puppy pads, his food/water dish, toys, grooming items, food, treats and a couple of outfits. He's going to be spoiled, I can already tell. Since we don't have a baby yet, Major will definitely be getting a little extra lol. My step daughter has already agreed to puppysit for me and she better not hurt my baby either lol.<br />
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Anywho, just wanted to share my excitement on overcoming my fear of dogs and becoming a pet parent. Cheers to all my other pet parents out there!!!<br />
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I will post a pic as soon as he comes home.<br />
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~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-57100725151785487182012-06-21T11:26:00.002-05:002012-06-21T11:26:34.439-05:00Growth<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello world,<br />
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So the past two weeks I've been re reading Purpose Driven Life, I read the book like 8 years ago I think and it really helped me. Reading it now, I am in total amazement at how far I've come. Of course, there is still a long road ahead but I am thankful for it.<br />
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If anyone has ever read it before you know it really breaks down things that we deal with and our struggle as Christians, etc. The tests, the living on purpose, the honoring God in all we do.... It seems that ever since I started the book again that I find myself doing or not doing things based on if God will be pleased with it. I have definitely checked my thoughts as they come (the negative ones) and try to regroup as quickly as possible. It seems as though the tests just keep coming but I thankfully am able to quickly pass them lol.<br />
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I don't know about you guys but to know and see my growth first hand is a blessing and I'm excited as to where re reading this book is going to take me next. My Father in Heaven has great things in store for me and I know I am no accident. I am so excited and pumped up about whats to come even through the little tests. I'm equipped to better handle them now. My relationship with the Lord is getting deeper and deeper and I yearn to glorify Him more!<br />
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There are so many good things going on around me that I know mine is right there on its way. I have friends in new homes, with new loves, with new jobs or positions, starting new businesses, going back to school, getting closer to God and just living! I am on cloud 12...<br />
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Just had to share...join me in reading or re/reading The Purpose Driven Life<br />
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~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-66180465705014323402012-06-12T13:41:00.000-05:002012-06-12T13:41:43.401-05:00Expectancy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Good day world!<br />
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I just have to thank God for new grace and mercy everyday! As I sit and think about all that I have currently...I become more and more grateful for it. As I desire change daily, I try to keep myself in a state of preparation & expectancy so that when the Lord feels its time to move me forward I am ready!<br />
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After a weird last week, I feel Him moving me closer to the next journey. I have created a schedule for myself and eliminated a lot of junk (old junk, toxic people, television, etc), doing more reading and meditating and working out again. I've gotta make sure that I not only workout my body but my mind as well. In doing this, my days are becoming brighter and brighter and more and more is revealed on a daily basis. Some things I'm like "wow" about and others I felt were soon coming anyway. Some people try to shut me out and/or keep their distance for whatever reasons, some simply moving on and others with open arms and embracing our relationship as it is. Honestly, I'm cool with all of it. Everything & everyone has their season and some seasons do come to an end.<br />
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I've even enrolled to get my certification in something that I've been fighting for some time and now I'm feeling really good about it and my future. Confirmation comes in different ways and I try to keep my ears and eyes open for it. I even have two new clients that I'm working with on helping them. Those moments of attack always bring brighter, happier days and as they say its always darkest right before the dawn.<br />
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Everyday I understand more and more that my life is not about me at all. I think for all of us when we begin to understand that, we truly see the purpose (our purpose) begin to unfold in our lives. I challenge each of you who read my post to wake up and ask yourself every morning, what can I do for someone else today that God will be pleased with.<br />
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thanks for reading my random thoughts....wishing you a powerful & productive day!<br />
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<br /></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-86955697807754941712012-06-06T10:21:00.003-05:002012-06-06T10:21:49.074-05:00Struggle<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Have you ever felt stuck? Ever know that this just can't be it? Well I have been helping a few people with this and what do you know... I find myself this past week in the same spot. It amazes me that when you are fully committed to living right, honoring God, being better and that whole basket of becoming great that the devil attacks you to no end. Money seems to be a little off, friendships/relationships seem to be irritated, goals a little blurry, people you come in contact with pressing your buttons, on the job issues. Ha, I am laughing at that enemy boy... I will not allow him to cause me to self destruct or throw me off.<br />
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The Lord has made promises. I am putting in the work I need to but I know I have to do more, especially when being attacked. I know my breakthrough is so close that I can literally touch it. I am not going to interfere with God's plan by trying to create my own...so I sit still. I fast, I pray. Slowly but surely the attacks dwindle, the clouds move out, the sun begins to shine brighter and my smile lasts longer. I am thankful that I have the holy spirit to assist me through the trials, dance in the rain and make a hell of a lemonade with the lemons.<br />
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The enemy cannot win and will not win, I have on the whole armor of God.<br />
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I did not update you on my conference/retreat I hosted but I will give you a quick review. I truly believe lives were changed that weekend. I know that everyone there received something from each speaker because they were each pretty awesome. I pray that each of them not only received something but that they apply as they move forward in their lives. I thank God for the vision for that and the continuation that HE is giving me. His instructions are changing and I will follow. I unfortunately did not take any pictures but one of the speakers did. I will post one that shows all of us at our LBD (little black dress) Dinner. The climax of the retreat happened to be on that crazy Eve spirit us ladies have and boy did that speaker go down everyone's street at some point through the night. I returned home and made some changes in all that I learned. I created a new budget that I learned from the finance workshop, cleared out my closet and rid myself of what doesn't match my style anymore which I learned from the Fashion workshop, have been working my butt off so that I can feel better and look better which I learned from the Fitness workshop and slowing down which I had to do over from my own workshop. I have so much more information to share with everyone that I will do it again. I could make it big but I'll keep it small for the moment unless I am given instructions from God. I plan to remain on the high I left with from the women's conference.<br />
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Anywho, I hope that if you're feeling how I had been that this post helped or will help you when you're feeling stuck. Remember the enemy will do everything to keep you from reaching the next level...do not fall for it. There is greatness ahead of you just keep going, reach further...I promise its there. Don't let those stumbling blocks make you fall just stumble and keep it moving.<br />
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over and out<br />
~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-72662920155640235632012-05-10T19:10:00.001-05:002012-05-10T19:10:10.038-05:00I love when I listen to God<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So, if you're a reader of my blog you know that I have an upcoming ladies weekend retreat.<br />
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Well, the event is next weekend and the closer it gets the more ecstatic I get. As I've said in previous posts this is something that I've been wanting to do for a little while but maybe not in the form of a retreat. Well, God spoke and that's what its been turned in to. I swear when He speaks, He gives you all the things, people, etc that you need to execute. I'm so blessed that He gave me the best people for the job. I'm doing a workshop on lifestyle/personal development, a friend, Andrea is covering fitness, a friend Manisa is doing a workshop on finance, another friend Jennifer is covering faith/spirituality and my friend and fellow blogger Toni is doing her workshop on fashion. How awesome is that? Too awesome.<br />
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We have a great variety of women who have made an investment in themselves and trust us to bring them knowledge on the above areas. Even though I am the planner of this event I am so looking forward to all the workshops.<br />
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We start out that Friday with registration, a workshop and a late night social. Saturday is where the remainder of the workshops will take place and our fabulous "Little Black Dress" dinner. Sunday we will join one last time for breakfast and to share our experiences from the weekend. I am praying for a very successful weekend surrounded with my friends and other women who ware looking to make improvements in their lives.<br />
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I promise that after its over I will post pics and report how awesome it was. There will definitely be more of these events in the future and I can't wait. Maybe next time you will join us. The other ladies aren't bloggers but if you're interested in great fashion, thrifting, styling tips...check out <a href="http://prettydarkgirlstyle.blogspot.com/">prettydarkgirlstyle.blogspot.com</a><br />
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Wishing you all a great weekend. I will be finalizing plans for next weekend and treating my mom to dinner and some mommy/me time.<br />
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toodles<br />
~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-14256760310915399412012-05-09T12:54:00.001-05:002012-05-09T12:54:27.107-05:00The Celebration<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So...the honey woke me up and told me to get ready Saturday morning. "Be ready by 10:30", so of course I followed instructions. I was told to not get dressed up or anything so I put on some jeans, a striped cotton shirt and a black cardigan since it was a little chilly in the morning. We quickly leave and soon after arrive at Cosmopolitan Salon and Day Spa..."awww" was my immediate thought but then I realize he sends me alone.<br />
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The staff quickly had me check in and offered coffee, tea or water but I declined since I would soon be lying down for my massage. I was given a very awesome massage by Stephanie for a good hour and ten minutes and was even complimented on my skin. (*blushing*). After the massage I was drinking my cup of water when I was told to follow another lady to a room. Once we arrive in the room there's a pedicure chair with magazines, etc. I happily hopped on up into the chair and rolled up my jeans for my fabulous hour long pedicure. The lady was very nice, I can't remember her name at the moment (senior moment). Shortly after the pedicure was over I was told to have a seat at her station where I received a manicure. While getting the manicure, my tall, handsome hubby walks in in a nice shirt and jeans. Hmm, what is he up to? He goes to the counter and pays while all the staff sent us on our way with huge smiles.<br />
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I carefully walk out to the car where the hubby says okay you're ready to eat? Of course, so we head to Aha Sushi which is a fav of mine but they weren't open yet. We then drive back in the direction we had already come from to hit up Sushi Thai.. Nom, Nom, Nom...what a wonderful time!<br />
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So, after lunch I see he's pretty ready to go so we pay the bill and quickly leave. Headed towards the tollway now, my mind is racing because I have no idea where we're going. I don't have the proper clothes on to be going somewhere is all I'm thinking. I say to him, "I thought I was going to get to go home and change" and softly tells me "babe, its okay". *Sigh*...<br />
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We're driving and driving and driving..lol. We're like way out south (south suburbs). Where the heck are we going and I can softly hear the GPS saying "In .4 miles your destination is on your right", all I see is a Burger King sign. WTH. So we pull into the parking lot of a gray building that looks nothing like somewhere we should be going and boom, I see the sign. Aura, adults only. LOL. The hubby had got us a nice room and it actually felt like we were away. Awww, that's all I could say. So, we pull around back after being let through a gate and park. He pops the trunk where he grabs two bags...he had packed one for me, how sweet.<br />
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The shower was amazing<br />
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Loved this fireplace..<br />
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If you're in the area and looking for a nice getaway, I highly recommend it. I loved the exclusivity of the place and with it being an hour away it felt like we had actually gone away. Looking forward to our real vacation though...nothing like beaches and fruity cocktails. He definitely pulled off a fabulous weekend and I was surely surprised. I love me some him.<br />
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That Sunday, we slept in and eventually found our way back to "home". It began to pour down rain on our way back so we picked up some takeout and watched movies. My mom stopped by to wish us a Happy Anniversary and she brought us dinner. The hubbs had been up all day Saturday after working over night Friday so he clonked out. After his nap we got up and cut the cake, which was just as delicious as it was the wedding day. What a great, low-key anniversary celebration. I'm super relaxed, just too bad we didn't win the lottery so I didn't have to come back to work. Thankfully I have the memory to keep me sane while working LOL.<br />
Our top layer from wedding day<br />
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Wine from our honeymoon that we managed to save<br />
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<br /></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-7895907174938525792012-05-03T10:28:00.004-05:002012-05-03T10:37:44.983-05:00Its almost time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This Sunday, May 6, 2012 will be my one year anniversary with my husband. This year has been great but also a learning experience. I'm so grateful that we made it and have stuck it out through the storms of life.<br />
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I've known my husband since we were in the 8th grade, he happened to be my first love. We dated for about a year and 3 months and decided to break up because of us getting in trouble lol. After a few months of being upset with him and him finding a new girlfriend I couldn't see him not being in my life so we remained friends and had been friends for the last 18 years. Our friendship has encountered much, we've watched other relationships come and go, been there for each other during the break ups, lost loved ones, mature, he had a daughter and so much more. We never let our friendship die, even during the little spats we had. He always had a very special place in my heart and I knew no matter what I'd always be in his life somehow.<br />
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As I think back to the late night calls and making him run to the 24 hour Walmart with me or just coming and watching movies with me...smiles quickly cover my face. He did anything for me but I never looked at him as my "soulmate". We made a bet that by the time we were 25 if we weren't married then we'd marry each other but that time came and we were both single and I just didn't think anything of it. So a couple more years went by and a few more relationships as well but something started changing. I was noticing myself getting a little jealous if he couldn't come out with me or what have you. We started spending time together but then it stopped and he was being short with my texts, etc... "what is this, me, catching feelings? ...no, it can't be" lol.<br />
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Our friend Jonathan invited me and a friend out to eat one day and Mel and I hadn't spoken in about a month so he had him come to, after arguing over dinner a bit we decided we'd hang out soon. Well that's where it started, we hung out and ever since then we've been together. I was so worried that if it didn't work that it would ruin our wonderful friendship but God had been preparing him just for me and I for him.<br />
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Two years later, my best friend proposed to me on 12-10-10. The 12 was for my birthday, the 10 for his...and 5 months later we were married. All that time my soul mate was right in front of me and I was looking everywhere but there.<br />
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This weekend we get to celebrate our first year of husband and wife together. I'm honored to call him husband and I pray that he's just as honored to call me wife. We've gotten to know even more things about each other in this year. You think you know someone really well until you marry them and move in together. I'm thankful for God being first in our life and that we can keep our line of communication open. Marriage is a beautiful thing but it is something that requires work. The work you put in is what you get out, enjoy each other, respect each other, accept the differences and vow to make the other happy.<br />
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I wish each of you that come across my blog the same happiness that I've been blessed with.<br />
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Happy Anniversary to Us... *cheers*<br />
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~the gorgeous dork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-7414508096849132372012-04-19T13:52:00.000-05:002012-04-19T13:52:20.333-05:00So I'm wrong???<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">One day I will be more consistent with my blogging. I promise! It just seems to be something going on all the time that I don't get around to it. I'm totally to blame and have no problem owning up to it (smile).<br />
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So, I get questioned often about "why are you so happy", "why do you always have to post positive stuff", "your life can't be that great"... REALLY? Why are these even questions?<br />
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Listen, when I was a kid, a teen, young adult...I had an attitude. I will admit to that one but it took some time for me to admit it. Why did I have an attitude? Because people caused me lots of pain when I was younger. I was talked about for being light skinned, I was talked about for going to private school, I was talked about because of what I had or anything else stupid you can think of. I had problems with females most of my life, so I usually took more to males. I then became a "hoe", because I had so many male friends. So, I developed an attitude as a security blanket. I gave attitude first so you didn't get the opportunity to hurt me. Dumb? Yes...but its what happened.<br />
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As I grew older and had lots of my mothers friends who gave me tons of advice. ( I also used to stay around the older crowd because they didn't make me feel like my peers did). They would often tell me, you should never dim your light because someone else is threatened by your greatness. My parents also told me this too, thank God that seed was embedded because it helped me get to where I am today. When I was in college I became obsessed with self help. I wanted to be better, that was a huge goal of mine. I read books, from Iyanla and many other great authors. But, I wasn't ready quite yet. I still had some growing to do and that is to be expected for a young lady in her twenties.<br />
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I've been hurt so many times during my life by friends, strangers, etc but all of that helped me become who I am today. I drown myself in being happy, in being better, in mastering my mind, helping others, empowering others, supporting others. I live it, I breathe it but it was hard work. Being optimistic, choosing happiness requires work but it can happen. I got rid of a lot of friends and so called friends, people who were not adding any value to my life. People who constantly brought drama amongst other things.<br />
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I started reading, I started affirming, I started praying, I started forgiving, I started loving more, I started smiling more and so on. Whew, thank God I am where I am now. I love hard, always have but now I love better. I forgave myself and anyone who had ever hurt me. I have done so much to get here, to get to this moment. God's grace and mercy helps me everyday. I keep myself spiritually plugged in and I got myself a life coach. Everything I learn I want to pass on to save someone else from themselves.<br />
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I said all that to say this. There is nothing wrong with someone being happy, there is nothing wrong with living happy and choosing happ"y"ness. IF you are having trouble with getting here, I can help you. Trust me there are days where you have not so good days but you don't focus on that...its part of being human. But never let anyone keep you from being the best you, the happy you! They are the ones with the issue. Smile harder, love harder, it will eventually rub off. Many know my glory but don't know my story which is far deeper than posted here and my story is what got me to the awesome me I am today!<br />
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I love you, whoever reads this. I'm here to help.<br />
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~thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-42320017952217923102012-04-04T11:49:00.000-05:002012-04-04T11:49:17.240-05:00Without questioning...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">So, I know I'm very sporadic with my posts but sometimes there just isn't time. I know, I need to make more time right? lol.<div><br />
</div><div>So, about a month ago a friend lost her mother and I was feeling some sort of way and actually worried for her but she made sure we all knew she was just fine. Her mother had been battling cancer for the second time. I lost my father to cancer along with an uncle in 09 and '10. Last summer I lost my grandmother but it was pretty much natural causes. In the past 7 years I've lost so many important people that I struggle sometimes not to question God. I know that death is a part of life but why do they have to all be back to back and all be such big pieces of the puzzle?</div><div><br />
</div><div>Yesterday morning I lost my Godmother...to yes, cancer! She had been dealing with it and made all of us feel like things were getting better. So, when I got the call yesterday morning it took my breath away. She was such a big piece of the puzzle in my life. Why? but I didn't ask. I kept the "why?" to myself. I knew my Godmother loved God more than anything in this world. I was comforted in knowing that she did not have to suffer much. She experienced one day of pain, praise God. I know she is in heaven and about to celebrate Easter up close and personal. I look forward to the day we meet again. My message to her was that I loved her and would miss her but could she please kiss my father for me. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I have experience so much loss but I am eternally grateful for my experiences with all the loved ones I have lost for they were all memories that I will cherish forever. I am also thankful for the wonderful family I have and the friends because they all are here for me no matter what. How many can say that they have that? Not many. I am truly blessed. </div><div><br />
</div><div>Forgive, Love, Live, Laugh and keep God first!</div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-91743521121181145262012-02-28T15:36:00.000-06:002012-02-28T15:36:32.945-06:00I just can't keep it to myself..<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I'm feeling really good today, nothing special is going on but I feel like it on the inside! <div><br />
</div><div>I'm putting together with a few friends a mini retreat for women. It seems to all be falling into place which makes the excitement increase. I'm a huge believer in God giving you a vision and I feel that if He gives you the vision He gives you the necessary tools or people to make it come to fruition. Well, He indeed did that with this event. I am just so ecstatic that I have such great people in my life that were more than willing to jump on board and make this happen. We each offer something different and together can make a dynamite event happen. </div><div><br />
</div><div>If you are interested and or want more information, don't hesitate to inquire. I'll give you a brief description of what will take place. Picture Me, Elevating is what its called. There will be 5 workshops over a weekend that women can participate in that include Fitness, Fashion, Finance, Face/Faith & Lifestyle. In each of the workshops the attendants will get a ton of information that they can then apply and begin to elevate themselves. I am praying that its life changing not only for the attendants but myself as well. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I spend hours researching information, participating in webinars, reading, etc. While many obtain information and keep it to themselves I want to share with the world. I want all of us ladies to be better, to do better. Why keep it to yourself? who is that helping. Weren't we all put here for service? I believe we were. I have grown so much in the last few years and I want those around me to as well. If I can help a friend, family member or even a stranger then I have done something, right? Life events were happening all around me, friendships dissolving, losing loved ones, bad relationship and so much more. I've been a believer for most of my life but sometimes we get so caught up that we forget and He has a way of shaking things up so you have no choice but to bend on your knees and call on Him. Some, blame God for hard times but I chose to answer and get myself together spiritually. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I believe that that's the first step (getting yourself together spiritually). How else can anything else fall into place without that major piece? It can't. So, after spending time reconnecting and getting my spirituality in check things began to shift for me. While there were still issues I dealt with I felt better and had more clarity with certain things. I have lost about 20 people in the last 7 years that were important in my life. To name a few key ones were my grandfather, an ex boyfriend, my great grandma, an uncle, my grandmother, a play father and the major one my father. There were many others throughout the last 7 years and I know had I not gotten myself "together" I would not have been able to handle this. Thank God He knocked me down and more importantly He gave me strength! </div><div><br />
</div><div>I could go on and on about the process but I won't for times sake. I am just thankful that I did reconnect, started working on other areas of my life and now I just want to help everyone. I am no saint, nor am I an expert but the last seven-eight years have taught me a lot and I just can't keep it to myself. So, I've put together this opportunity for others to invest in themselves and get the fire lit so that they too can elevate. The world is groaning, God is speaking and its time for us to make some things happen. Our youth need us and we need to be prepared to assist them and keep them on the right track but we can't do it if we ourselves are not "together"</div><div><br />
</div><div>Thanks for reading my randomness and I hope that maybe it sparked something in you to do some self reflecting and make something happen!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Over and out</div><div>~thegorgeousdork</div><div><br />
</div><div>So, </div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-31110942630637689372012-02-15T09:57:00.000-06:002012-02-15T09:57:06.766-06:00Lack of Presence<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">So, yeah... I've been MIA for a little bit, not that I have many followers anyway I still desire to blog away. I've been blogging elsewhere but have decided to return here.<br />
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The last month or so has been what some may call weird for me. I've been working out more, eating healthier, trying to be a better wife and stepmom, friend and daughter and most importantly a better me! Those of you who do follow me know that that is my main objective...to be the best me possible all while helping others. I've been praying a lot lately as far as which direction I actually should be going. My hand is in a lot of pots and I've been saying how I truly need to focus on one and work it like no other. So..I've been pulling back from some and putting more energy into one. I am not sure that I can leave all of them completely but I have vowed to put 70% of my energy into one. With that being said I will begin to post more, to show more and hopefully spark your interest.<br />
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I've been putting myself on the back burner for some time and now plan to be a little more selfish, if that makes sense. I know that I can't give others anything if my own cup isn't full. How do I expect to pour into the lives of others being empty? It just simply can't happen.<br />
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I'm so very thankful for my husband, he's been supportive of me during this "foggy" time. Moments of depression he quickly did what he could to get me out of it. I asked a few friends to pray for me and they did...I could feel it! Thank God for them, I'm feeling like myself again.<br />
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My event business is hosting a women's retreat/getaway in the upcoming months, it has me excited. I have asked some of my talented friends to be speakers at workshops during the event and fortunately they have all said yes and possibly work with me and make this into another business or women's group. I'm looking forward to what it all will bring. I even have vendors that are offering product samples, coupons or discount codes to all the attendees as well. When God gives you a vision and you already have the gift and surrounded by who and what you need, you better just expect to work it and work it well. Just thought I'd share one of my future projects with the world. If you are interested, you can come join us. This weekend away will be pretty much covering all the components of the woman. Somewhat of a get the fire going within type of function. I plan to blog about the process and the many other future events that are coming my way.<br />
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I wanted to include the video I watched that truly helped me put it all into perspective. I hope that you too will get something from it. Committing to being a better me, one idea at a time!<br />
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</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-9776953448369443602012-01-03T11:46:00.000-06:002012-01-03T11:46:47.894-06:00Its a new year!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">It's officially 2012 as we all know. Many of us have created a list of goals or resolutions for the year but how many of us will actually stick with any of them? I have made a couple of promises to myself and one was to change up my blog a bit, I'll be bringing different topics daily. I will let you know the exacts as soon as possible.<br />
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One thing I wanted to mention today was that none of us should allow negativity in our lives in 2012. Stop making excuses for the things that have occurred in your life. OWN UP! Nothing is anyone else's fault and its time that we take ownership for the things that have happened. Time that we make changes to correct those things. Forgive those that have hurt or harmed us in the past...for you! Forgiveness does not have to be verbal and to the person that you have the issue with. I have a couple of activities that help in the forgiveness area that I will share with you soon. I am hoping that you will take advantage of those things that I post and really release some of that negative energy in your life. Have you ever thought about how you "not" forgiving could be preventing a blessing you've been waiting on? Well, it does...so its time to get it right! Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us and I don't want to leave here holding grudges against anyone. Many people have done many things to me and some even say I forgive too easy, yes...I do! I'm not going to prevent myself from receiving what God has for me for holding on to something that is more than likely trivial. I just want you all to really think about some of those grudges you're holding onto, are they worth it? You having any ill will towards anyone, is it worth it? Have you been thinking or asking God for something and it hasn't happened yet? Try forgiveness. No, I'm not saying that will automatically cause what you've been wanting to just drop into your lap but it will relieve you from unnecessary stress and open the door for a blessing beyond what you've initially asked. Just food for thought for now.<br />
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Toodles for now<br />
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the gorgeous dork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-48985160121901988832011-12-20T11:45:00.000-06:002011-12-20T11:45:44.287-06:00Revamping<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I've been such a scatterbrain as of late but totally revamping my blog. Keep an eye out for me in the very near future. Wishing you and yours a fantabulous Christmas and an awesome 2012.<br />
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In the meantime check me out on <a href="http://www.marykay.com/teenawatkins">www.marykay.com/teenawatkins</a> </div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-58762671021570868332011-12-12T10:30:00.000-06:002011-12-12T10:30:57.347-06:00Its My Birthday!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I've been reflecting a lot lately and I can't say anything but GREAT things about this year. I lost my grandma this year but overall it was awesome. God blessed me beyond my thoughts. I am committed to living an extraordinary life in this new year of life I've been blessed with. I will love hard as I always have, encourage, support, empower, bless, give, and a whole lot more. My life is not about me but those I can help in some way. Stay tuned...watch me work!. Love<div><br />
</div><div>~smooches</div><div>the gorgeous dork</div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-2199081664460279002011-12-06T10:16:00.000-06:002011-12-06T10:16:41.064-06:00Interview with The Chef-someone you want to know!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I promised that I would spotlight some of the awesome people that I know who are doing things and making moves. Why? Because the spotlight is not just for celebrities but those that are in our communities as well. Lift up our own...Support our own!<br />
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I had the lovely opportunity of interviewing a dear friend of mine Mr. Jerrold Brooks. He's definitely a chef you want to get to know.<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><b><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><i>First can you give a brief biography on yourself? </i><o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">My name is Jerrold Brooks; I’ve been in the professional culinary industry since 1994. I have one son and I love sporting events, dining out and researching new culinary trends. I’m a member of Cummins Street MB church in Memphis TN and I’m presently the Executive Chef for Sam’s Town Casino and resort in Robinsonville Ms. An 850 Room resort with 4 restaurants, 20,000 square foot of meeting space, room service and a 90,000 square foot casino.<br />
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<b><i>What inspired you to become a chef?</i><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">I was inspired to become a chef at an early age when I would help my mom in the kitchen. She instilled a passion for cooking in me. <br />
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<b><i>How long have you been a chef?</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">I have been an actual chef for 14 years now. My first chef position was Sous Chef in the Range Steakhouse in Vicksburg Ms. <br />
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<b><i>What services do you offer?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">I presently don’t offer many services outside of work, but I have done a few small catering events. However I do speak at high school vocational programs and at career days at local schools.<br />
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<b><i>What are your specialties?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">My specialties are modern regional cuisines using fresh seafood and high quality beef indigenous of the region.<br />
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<b><i>Care to give away a fabulous recipe for your fans to try out? If so, what is it?</i><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> No I don’t mind if you can convince me too. LOL<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><b><i>What are you most passionate about?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">My son, and making people smile through food.<br />
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<b><i>How do you feel about giving back? </i></b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'; font-size: 13px;">I feel that giving back is everything. Someone had to give back to me to get me started.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><b><i>Who are your inspirations in your field?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Masahari Morimoto and the late Patrick Clark.<br />
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<b><i>How do you feel about the new craze of chef competitions on tv?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">I love it because it continues to bring positive marketing to an industry that up until about 20 years ago was not given much respect and was meant for low educated and low skilled people. People use to view a chef as the man in the white t-shirt with a stinky cigar ringing a bell saying pick up.<br />
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<b><i>Have you ever tried out for one? If so which one? </i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Yes I have. I tried out for Hell’s Kitchen but only made it to the second round of questioning.<br />
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<b><i>Will you ever try out again? </i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Probably not<br />
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<b><i>What is your biggest pet peeve?</i></b> <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Someone taking short cuts for the benefit of laziness. I hate that.<br />
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<b><i>What do you bring to the table that most chef's don't? </i><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">Wow, difficult question. Just a desire to be number one and the best of everything I do. No one wants to be associated with a looser. “2 is not a winner and 3 no one remembers” Nelly<a href="" name="_GoBack"></a><br />
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<b><i>What are your future plans in the food industry? </i><o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">To become an Executive Chef of a mega resort casino environment and eventually open a wine an hors d’ oeuvre bar that caters to the business class.<br />
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<b>Your favorite quote? <o:p></o:p></b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><b><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">“Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off” Colin Powell</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><b><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"><br />
</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><b><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;">So...I did get Jerrold to provide us with a great recipe for a dessert. How perfect since we are in the Holiday season and are surrounded by sweets no matter where we go lol. Listed below is the recipe for </span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"><i>White chocolate chip bread pudding</i></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt;"></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">12 ounce French bread</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">2 cups Heavy whipping cream</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">¾ cup granulated sugar</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">1 large whole egg</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">3 Large egg yolks</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">2 teaspoon vanilla</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">½ cup chocolate chips</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">1/3 cup pralines</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Sauce:</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">1 cup Brown Sugar</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">½ cup Frangelico liqueur</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Spray an 8x8 inch baking dish with cooking spray. Set aside. Cut the bread into manageable size pieces. Place in a large bowl and set aside.</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Combine the milk, sugar, egg, egg yolks and vanilla in a medium sauce pan over low heat; whisk to combine. Simmer, stirring constantly with spatula until custard thickens slightly about 3 to 5 minutes</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Pour hot custard over the bread and toss gently to mix. Set aside to cool completely. When cool, add the chocolate chips and pralines and toss gently to mix. Pour the pudding into the oiled baking dish and bake until golden brown and set, about 45- 50 minutes.</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Doesn't this sound delicious? I plan on making for my Christmas dinner. You can find Chef Jerrold Brooks on Facebook at <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1346599181" style="text-align: left;">http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1346599181</a></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Chef Jerrold also wanted us to know that he's willing to travel for special events. Check him out!</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">Thanks Jerrold for your time and I wish you nothing but success in your career. Since the time of this interview Chef Jerrold has taken on a new position which will further advance him in his career. God bless!</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">~smooches</div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">thegorgeousdork</div><b><span style="font-family: "Comic Sans MS"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"> <!--[if !supportLineBreakNewLine]--><br />
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</div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-5119479236471867342011-11-18T11:04:00.000-06:002011-11-18T11:04:34.463-06:00Blessed<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">This week has been such a good week. I went from feeling kinda drab about my full time job last week to now just going with it (which is my usual approach). I had a talk with my boss and you know, whatever happens happens. I am so excited for what the future will bring that I'm not even sure if I am here mentally LOL. I feel God moving and my positive outlook is definitely attracting the same.<br />
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This weekend I am going to see my Godsis Ashley compete for Miss Illinois USA. She competed last year but did not win so she's going for it again. I'm so proud of her and confident that she will win this year. I took her yesterday to get pedicures and boy did my feet need it. It was good to just talk with her. She's young but so mature. She's doing so much with her life and I just get excited about the young people making moves. I will definitely keep you all posted on what the outcome is.<br />
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Tonight, when the hubby goes to work I am going to do some reading and relax. I ordered about 6 new books last week instead of a pair of shoes. How cool is that?? (giggles). I'm addicted to a few shows outside of reality tv so I plan to catch up on Homeland, Private Practice, Greys Anatomy and Boss. Any fans of those shows out here? Other than those shows I think most of what I watch is reality, which I've began cutting out slowly but its SOOO hard!<br />
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I plan to work on my vision board/video this weekend, that besides my reading will be my productive work for the weekend. I am hoping that each of you takes some time to do something productive towards your passion this weekend. A commitment of an hour a day will lead you closer to success. Give it a try.<br />
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Have a great weekend!<br />
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~smooches<br />
thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-48884326633734767782011-11-17T13:00:00.000-06:002011-11-17T13:00:10.408-06:00Day 27-31<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Today is such an awesome day...Throughout this journey and in my day to day personal journey I am confident in my future. I will share with you the last days of the 31 day challenge.<div><br />
</div><div>Day 27...Take yourself out on a date</div><div><br />
</div><div>Well I didn't go alone I went with one of the BFF's (prettydarkgirlstyle) but I had an awesome time. We went to Red Lobster lol, I don't think either of us had been in a while so hey.. We met at church and then went out to eat afterwards. We chose the new items on the menu and of course a cocktail, we were both in heaven. Full and still looking fabulous we ended our date lol but it was great to go out and treat myself. I came home and watched lifetime since the hubby was at work and then reorganized my closet. What a day!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Day 28...Develop a self care plan..</div><div>This was pretty much a guide to getting back in tune with your inner and outer self. To become more mindful of your thoughts. I will share a few things I added to my self care plan</div><div>-Salads for lunch</div><div>-No soda during the week</div><div>-No fast food for a week.</div><div>-Make my own lunches</div><div>-Eat breakfast at home</div><div>-More water</div><div>-Exercise a minimum of 30 minutes everyday. </div><div><br />
</div><div>Those are just a few..</div><div><br />
</div><div>Day 29- Start a side hustle...</div><div><br />
</div><div>I have too many to start a new one but I wrote out plans for each business that I will have to take action on. Some of my readers already know my side hustles but I will share them with you. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I am almost a senior consultant for Mary Kay </div><div>I am a event/wedding planner</div><div>I am the president/founder of a youth development mentoring program</div><div>I am an accountability/lifestyle coach!</div><div><br />
</div><div>BOO-YAH lol, there are my side hustles. I don't think I need anymore.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Day 30- Write your own Eulogy.</div><div><br />
</div><div>I hadn't done this since the second year in Sweetface(my mentoring program). I found it and so much has changed since I wrote it. It was 5 years ago and I think we all know how much can change in that time span. I will not be sharing mine but this exercise was deep, however I was happy with the way my life has changed or progressed. I think if I died today my eulogy would've made me proud.</div><div><br />
</div><div>Day 31- Do a vision board. </div><div>I do vision board almost every year. I am actually in the process of doing a project that makes your vision board come to life (though video/slideshow) I have my music, clips, pics, etc that I have to make into a video to present to my teen girls in Sweetface. Myself along with the other mentors are doing the same thing. The girls this year have a personal project they are doing and I think us showing them our own will inspire them to put more thought into theirs. The vision board is something we started with them when Sweetface first started and I'm happy to say that those that have been in the program a while improve upon theirs every year, so we must be doing something right. I think ALL should have a vision board. I am actually working on one with my husband as well so we have one for our family. It definitely helps!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Thanks Daphne so much for this opportunity in doing the challenge with you. I hope that I have inspired some of my readers to really look within and re-evaluate. I'm such a better person since self -reflecting and participating in challenges such as this one. I am here for you, a friend, family member etc... that ever needs someone to help them along their way. Be on the lookout for the great things that are in my future.Watch me Work... </div><div><br />
</div><div>~smooches</div><div>thegorgeousdork</div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-60072200388833238942011-11-17T11:47:00.000-06:002011-11-17T11:47:37.151-06:00Days 22-26<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Hey there...this challenge is very close to its end and I am a BETTER woman!<br />
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Day 22- Plan your reset project.<br />
After weeks of the work we've been doing it was now time to get down to business...how will we make all the dreams/visions come to life? We had to take a specific area from our life maps to make progress on. Listed below is what we had to do with it.. Its very similar to the goal planning/setting I do with the girls involved in my mentoring program. I've got mine down and making things happen daily. Everything I put out into the universe is coming back. As the Bible says, speak those things as though they were which is simply the law of attraction we hear about.<br />
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<li style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><strong style="font-weight: bold;">Why the project was selected:</strong> How will this project help you get closer to your ideal life?</li>
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</ul><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">So now on to Day 23 </span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">We were told to find a community to support our goals. I joined a couple sites that are all about uplifting and supporting one another but for me I have a few people I share my dreams and goals with in detail and they support me as I support them in what they want. While I don't mind being transparent to others I also like to keep some things private and share them with those that truly love me and have my best interest at heart. So I joined but my "details" will be left to those that I know will TRULY support me on them.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">Day 24- make a new friend.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">This wasn't just about randomly going up to someone to make a friend...but those people that you have encountered as of late and "clicked" with. We were to make effort in to building a relationship with them. There are two people that I've clicked with in the past year or so and we have slowly been making progress in our "friendship" to becoming friends. I tend to take the word friend seriously so I am not quick to calling people friends. I also feel like as of late the woman who chose me to do this with her is becoming a friend. Only inviting people in my life that will add value. You should do the same.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">Day 25- Stop complaining for 24 hours</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">I successfully did 21 days of no complaining a couple months ago and while it was challenging I had no problem on Day 24. I find myself checking myself every time a complaint comes to mind. I quickly try to change the thought and end up laughing about it. I think if we all made ourselves aware of how much we complain we'd all get a kick out of it and make some changes. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"><br />
</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">Day 26- List 100 things that make you happy...</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">I know most of you who read this may thing how in the world will I come up with 100 things...EASY! Once you get started so many start to come to you. I hate to keep repeating myself but I've done this before too but its always good to do it again and quickly remind yourself of all the happy things. I will just name 10 so you get an idea, if you're stuck when you do this yourself. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">1. Sunshine</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">2. Water ( I love putting my feet into the ocean or lake and looking out, it feels like I'm close to God knowing I see no end ahead of me.)</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">3. The smell of my husbands cologne</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">4. Cookies </span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">5. shopping</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">6. spending time with my mom, friends, family.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">7. Romantic comedy</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">8. Getting Pedicures</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">9. Listening to good music</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">10. Reading</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;"><br />
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</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">~smooches</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">thegorgeousdork</span></span></div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-68591322160178812572011-11-14T13:19:00.000-06:002011-11-14T13:19:37.290-06:00Days 18-21<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">As promised, just a couple days late...<br />
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Day 18 was about creating your bucket list if you didn't have one. I actually had one already but added to it.<br />
I will share just a few things that are on my bucket list. 1) Travel to Italy, Greece, South Africa, Australia & Japan. 2) Dinner with Oprah 3) To take my mom wherever she wants to go for a month, even if different destinations. 4) Become a mother, a good one (of my own, since I inherited a daughter) 5) Work with David Tutera or Preston Bailey on an event. 6) To change the lives of many for the better.<br />
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Of course I have a few more but I wont share EVERYTHING lol.<br />
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Day 19 was reviving your love life whether you have one or not.<br />
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Hubby and I went out on a date, had some great conversation and just enjoyed each other. The exact details don't need to be told but we try to make sure the love life stays on fire! (giggling)<br />
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Day 20- Get rid of stuff you don't need<br />
Some of you that follow me on FB or in general know that I was previously doing 21 days of decluttering so I had pretty much taken care of this assignment already. However, I did get rid of a few more papers that day and even some more clothes. I am committing to not keeping anything that I don't need any longer. A lifecoach of mine previously stated that you don't have room to receive all of the new you've been requesting if you're still holding onto old "stuff" so I've promised myself to constantly purge the old. You should try it. Feel lighter getting rid of all of it.<br />
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Day 21- Remove the negative people from your life...<br />
Ha, this is something that I've been doing for about 3 years now if not longer but consistently trying to rid myself of the toxic in the past 3. I've had to rid myself of people that have been in my life for years and while I thought it was going to be extremely difficult to do it wasn't at all. I had prayed that God remove them for me and sure enough they slowly start fizzling out. Thank GOD! My life has been so much better since I have done this. In the assignment she brought up that you might be your own debbie downer and in that case she suggested that<br />
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<div style="background-color: white; color: #454545; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><strong style="font-weight: bold;">The Elephant in the Room:</strong> It is not lost on me that the negative person you need to purge from your life might be YOU. If you are your own personal Debbie Downer, here is a special modification for this exercise.</div><div id="yui_3_2_0_1_1321285088601506" style="background-color: white; color: #454545; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><br />
<ul id="yui_3_2_0_1_1321285088601522" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: initial; list-style-type: square; margin-bottom: 18px; margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><li id="yui_3_2_0_1_1321285088601519" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Take your notebook around with you today and make a list of all the instances where you express negativity or cynicism throughout the day - either with your thoughts, words or actions.</li>
</ul><ul style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: initial; list-style-type: square; margin-bottom: 18px; margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 20px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><li style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">For each instance, explain why you said, thought or did what you did. Be honest. Were you jealous? Feeling depressed? Angry or annoyed?</li>
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</ul><div>So... check yourself as well and constantly check those in your life, on your fb page, twitter, etc that are toxic to your well being/your spirit. Get rid of them as quickly as you can. </div><div><br />
</div><div>~smooches</div><div>thegorgeousdork</div></div></div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980636312942173201.post-40501861180340830062011-11-14T10:03:00.000-06:002011-11-14T10:03:01.253-06:00I guess...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">I guess I shouldn't have made that promise eh, lol. So, today while working I will be catching up on the blogging while working lol. This journey has been oh so amazing and I hope that out of my few readers that someone took something away from this experience. I will post in 3's so you know. Thanks for following/reading. This week I will be posting an interview with a friend who's a wonderful chef. You definitely don't want to miss this guy, he's also going to provide us with a recipe for a Thanksgiving dish...how fab is that? lol <br />
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thegorgeousdork</div>~the gorgeous dorkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00769109960309936450noreply@blogger.com0